Do women go down on men a lot these days?

WHAT DO you THINK ABOUT WOMEN WHO GO DOWN ON THE 1st OR 2nd DATE… IS IT OK TO GET A HAND AND MOUTH JOB RIGHT WHEN YOU MEET SOME ONE AND IF YOU LIKE IT SHOULD YOU FALL IN LOVE… OR CONSIDER THAT SHE DOES THIS WITH EVERY GUY SHE SEE’S…???

Answer #1

First of all, it IS absolutely disgusting. It shows she has no self-respect and thinks that by pleasuring a guy right off the bat, that he will want and stay with her. Such is never the case. Who’s to say she hasn’t done that to 100 other guys? It may be a personal decision, but it is a gross and ultimately embarrassing one. Physical actions do not equal love.

Whether or not you actually get pleasure by what she does, shouldn’t determine whether or not you fall in love with her. You can’t choose who you fall in love with, and you shouldn’t try to force yourself to love someone merely because they satisfy you physically. Love is something that develops over a long period of time, through getting to really know the person, not how good they are in bed. This is just my opinion.. but I don’t believe you can just FALL IN LOVE with someone. No such thing as love at first sight. 90% of what you feel at the very beginning of a relationship is purely physical. UNLESS of course you are one of few people who leave the physical-ness out of it completely for a long time.

Don’t go with a girl who is that easy. You will regret it. There is nothing good to say about people who have such little respect for their bodies.

Answer #2

I agree with underwaterophelia also. Hmm, I’ve been saying that a lot lately…

But, to try and answer your question without dismissing it out of hand also…

I think women who go down on the first or second date will generally have issues they are dealing with - mostly to do with commitment and staying with a guy. I don’t think any sort of sexual activity is appropriate when you meet, and I’d say its likely they do that with everyone else they’ve been on date with. Not always of course… but if I was to be confronted with such a situation, alarm bells would be ringing in my head big time, saying stay away…

Answer #3

I disagree with,’’Monkeyfun26’’.It would be her personal decision. But the guy would never be able to respect her. If she goes down on a 1st date, that kind of shows that she;s easy. And if she doesn’t love him, then she shouldn’t EVER go down with him.

Answer #4

Well, im gunna have to disagree with everyone. I think that a girl that goes down on a 1st or second date isn’t disgusting. Its her personal decision, and if she feels like pleasuring her man right off the bat I wouldn’t think too much about it. Maybe see does do it with every guy she sees, but than maybe she doesn’t It will have to be your call on this one. Goodluck :)

Answer #5

Well, im gunna have to disagree with everyone. I think that a girl that goes down on a 1st or second date isn’t disgusting. Its her personal decision, and if she feels like pleasuring her man right off the bat I wouldn’t think too much about it. Maybe see does do it with every guy she sees, but than maybe she doesn’t It will have to be your call on this one. Goodluck :)

Answer #6

depends.unless your trying to find love.or sex =)

Answer #7

I agree with ‘underwateropfelia’

Answer #8

I think women who would go down on a man on the first or second date are disgusting.

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