Do I trust her?

Rite ok many of you know I’ve been going throu stuff with my boyfriend now xbf But lately a good mate of mine and his is telling me that he still likes me I don’t know wether or not shes trying to stir up trouble because he don’t act like he likes me at all! I don’t know what to do because if I belive her it could cause me to lose him as a mate And I really don’t want that But yet again if I don’t belive her I could lose her I’m really confussed because they both have been there for me when I needed them most. And whats worse is he says he may ask her to go to the prom with him and she knows how much that would hurt me!! They say their just good mates but there are times were I wonder if their more from the way they act towards eachother I mean she shakes her arse in his face and he enjoys it (she also done it when I was with him) I think they have feelings for eachother but I feel I cant trust either of them What can I do???

Answer #1

Omg! Ok…well I think its pretty clear and obvious that you 2 are OVER. Get over it and dont get back w/him under any circumstance. Next…your so-called friend…what the hell is she doing shaking her arse in front of him? its disrespectful to YOU whether your dating him or not. I wouldnt be suprised if they already slept together or at least had some make out session while you were dating him or right after. Dont b naive. If shes a real friend, then it shouldnt matter what decisions you make. YOU are in control of your mind and only you can make decisions for urself. If she would actually stop being your friend just cause you dont listen to her…then shes not a true friend. Friends are there for love and support/care/advice/opinions…they’re not there to say..oh you have to do this or that or we cant b friends! Hes your xbf for a reason. If you 2 are meant to be together, then you would b by now. Just leave it alone. Dont take her advice on this matter. If she goes to prom w/him…then I think you know just what kind of friend she is. She should know by now, this is wrong. He was your man! Now he is your ex and thats even more reason to stay away from him in your honor. I cant believe there are girls out there like this, but its reality and some girls cant keep there hands off their friends boyfriends or ex-boyfriends. Girl…dont get caught up in this. Trust me, its not worth it. A good man will come along one day and dont let any of your friends get so close to the person your dating. That relationship should always be somewhat private and always respected.

Answer #2

Wow, this happened with my friends beginning of the school year. It seems like your mutual friend is actually plotting against you. Even if she’s not going out with him, she still likes seeing you in uncomfortable positions. I agree with sugarmouse; you two are over. Break it off with him; it’s better that you do it and feel liberated, even if it is hard. If he still does have feelings for you like your friend says, he will then tell you. If he doesn’t, well, you’re better off without him. If he and your friend hook up then just keep in mind that you’re better off without BOTH of them. Your boyfriend should put you first, above his and your friends; what you two have should be special, but obviously your friends “bootay” is getting in the way. Hope this helps.

-Realilly

Answer #3

Maybe you should talk to both of them?And try to sort things out?

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