Do I go out with him?

I like this guy that’s a year older than me but all my friends both guys and girls are warning me off him. I’ve heard rumours about him using girls and then dumping them and sulking in order to get what he wants. I asked him about all the things I’ve heard and he just told me it was all lies. I don’t know what to do as I like him but I don’t want to be used and hurt. Any advise anyone? All comments welcome. Thanks.

Answer #1

I kinda agree with angelfire on this one… of course hes not going to tell the truth about it if its true… HOWEVER… not all rumors are true. not everything you hear is true. if you like him then you have to decide for yourself if he is trustworthy or not. just be carefull… keep your guard up. most guys are assholes. make sure you take it slow so that you dont get too emotionally involved yet. I hope you dont get hurt by him… GOODLUCK!

Answer #2

Seriously, do you actually think a guy is going to admit that he uses girls? Every rumor in school that said a certain guy was a player, or a certain girl was a slut, I found to be true. So you can choose to be naive, and find out for yourself, or listen to what people are saying. If I liked a guy, and heard those kinds of rumors about him…my feelings would sure change in a hurry!!

“Only a fool tests the depth of the water with both feet.”

Answer #3

ummm its really up 2 you I went out wit this guy when my friends tod me not 2 because of rummors and stuff like that but it worked out 4 awhile (until we broke up) but then again there where guys who I dated who were players and they where a**holes so its really up 2 you id probably go out what him but accorin 2 other people im a slut!! hope it helped!! if it didnt im sorry!!!

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