should I ask him out or wait??

I really like this guy and i’m not sure if he feels the same way!! he’s in my history class and we sit near each other. we talk together alot and he is two years older than me. My friend told me that one day when i was not at school,a conversation about me came up and apparently rick said he knew that i liked him. I still flirt with him and sometimes i walk home from school with him. it’s hard to read him because sometimes he flirts with me and other times he flirts with other girls, and it makes me jealous. I really want to ask him out, but i’m afriad he will reject me because he still hasn’t made a move yet if apparently he already knows i like him?? what do you suggest i do, ask him out or wait ( i’ve tried to read his body language, but he is hard to read). PLEASE HELP ME!!

Answer #1

Most guys, as angelfire says, if they know a girl likes them, will act on it, if they like her back. Problem is, for guys establishing that the girl actually does like him in that way can be incredibly difficult. Does he actually know for sure that you like him?

I think usually guy’s body language is fairly obvious when they like a girl and want to go out with them. But often, a guy won’t make a move if he likes a girl because he’s unsure of whether the girl likes him back - because, funnily enough, the body language of girls can be extremely hard to read - are they just being nice, are they just being playful in a platonic way, or do they like you - its never easy for a guy to figure out. Often girls hide their feelings from being obvious to guys because they don’t want to appear desperate, easy, or slutty to the guy or their friends. And then, sometimes a guy will give up on the idea of potentially dating a girl he likes because he doesn’t think he stands a chance or thinks it won’t happen, as much as he’d like it too. Or, if you’re friends, he might be afraid of ruining the friendship if you reject him. Its complicated!

If you really want to go out with him, and you think there is a chance he likes you back, then perhaps you can try making the first move and ask him out - guys really like that too btw. From what you said, its hard to tell whether he does or doesn’t - could be either one in my opinion…

Answer #2

wait a minet tey this go up to him and say do you feel the same way that i feel about yo becuse i rilly like you if he seas no you say fine is all good

Answer #3

It happens all the time. Just because you may like someone, it doesnt mean they are going to feel the same way back. There are no signs whatsoever that this guy is even slightly interested in you. You cant read his body language Hun, because he’s not giving you any. He knows you like him, and he hasnt done anything about it. I know people will tell you that maybe hes shy. No. He just isnt feeling for you what you are feeling for him. Most guys if they know a girl likes them, will act on it…IF…he likes her back! I dont see that in this case!

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