Why didnt i orgasm?

I had sex twice with this one guy. I lost my virginity the first time, so it only hurt. Then the second time we had sex, i just felt…nothing. His dick seems pretty big though, (its my first dick ive seen though).Also Ive never masturbated, does that have a difference. How can i get pleasure from sex

Answer #1

You did not get the right sort, or amount, of stimulation.

Answer #2

Many females have difficulty orgasming. Females need much more stimulation and foreplay than males do. Talk to your boyfriend about maybe doing some oral sex with you before intercourse or some other foreplay that you enjoy. Sex gets more enjoyable the more you do it.

Answer #3

Great, you’re 15. Alright, as much as I dont want to be encouraging a 15 year old to have sex. Masturbation will help you figure out what feels good for you. So that will help. Now, for a little anatomy lesson. Most of the nerve endings are around the clitoris. The vagina is only sensitive about a 1/3 of the way in. A large percent of females can’t orgasm without stimulation to the clitoris, it is very difficult to have an orgasm just through penile penetration. So that’s where foreplay, oral sex comes in, as well as stimulating the clitoris during intercourse. Different positions may help. You also have to remember that you are both learning to work together, so this is going to take some time. Unfortunately, it tends to be easier for guys. I am sincerely hoping this guy is around your age, and if he is, it is going to take him some time to figure out what makes a female feel good. It would help if you found out what made you feel good and then direct him (it doesn’t have to come out like an order), just encourage certain behaviors, and he’ll figure it out. Teen boys are not usually experts at sex. So a little time and patience. And protection. Always. Not just some of the time. All of the time.

Answer #4

it helps to get to know your body first before someone else can pleasure you…masturbate.

Answer #5

It’s harder for girls to get off, and it takes longer than most guys. I’ve had sex plenty of times and have only gotten off about 4 times.. It’s just something that takes awhile to happen.

Answer #6

Its natural to not orgasm until your downstairs is fully developed, which for woman, is around 21 or so. even then you might even be able to. which is normal. but it sometimes it can be fixed with different ways of stimulation.. but i suggest not having sex until your 18 atleast.. i really think youll regret it when you get older.. i did and im most certaintly you will too.. talk to your mom or someone older you trust.. sister maybe? about sex and other things you are unsure about so you have some relation and itll mean more

Answer #7

u werent with me. duh.

Answer #8

part of the reason it’s easier for guys is because it’s necessary to procreate but it’s not necessary for girls

Answer #9

Lol

Answer #10

Lol

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