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Did she really leave me?

ME and my girl was going out when we made a year she left me a few dayz after cause she said thingz don’t feel the same no more and now itz been 4 months and she still hisnt come back she tellz me to go have fun to meet new people to don’t be scared give a other girl a chance but she still tellz me she lovez me hugz me and when we 2gther she always all over me but then the next day she like she don’t no me kinda..and when she do hear that im talkin to a other girl or got anything on form aother person she getz mad at me I really love this girl but I don’t know what to do no more she the only girl I cry for she used to call me evernight say goodnight come 2 my house this really stressin me I even be have chest pain when I think to much about her. I ask her 2 do you want me to wait 4 you she sayz I don’t know but if somethingz comez your way take it.

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Answer #1

This girl your talking about seems really confused. She also seems quite selfish It seems that she doesnt want to be in a relationship with you, but she also doesnt want you to be with any one else You need to sit her down and ask her what she really wants to do Be with you or move on. No in between. No constant hugging and telling you she loves you.. it has to be one of the other. This seems to be really hurting you.. and you dont deserve it. So talk to her. If she says she doesnt want to be with you, forget her, move on. Still be friends.. just dont do the whole “I love you” and hugging thing with her. Act like friends with her.. nothing more.

Answer #2

Shes not confused, shes just being nice, because she doesnt want to hurt your feelings.

ME and my girl was going out when we made a year she left me a few dayz after cause she said thingz don’t feel the same no more>>Thats what you need to keep in mind, even though she says she still “loves” you, its more guilt than anything. If she loved you (in the right way) she would still want to be with you. You have no other choice but to move on, like she is trying to. Its been 4 mos. and the sooner you let go of your feelings for her, the sooner you can start to heal. Its going to take a lot of time, being you dated for a year, but its possible. If I can do it, anyone can!

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