Did I do a dumb thing?

Okay so me and my boyfriend of over 2 years had sex for the first time when I turned 15. He was really sweet about it and everything seemed okay. He lives about an hour away and doesnt go to my school but he can drive and it seemed to work for us. But we both decided to break up with each other. All of a sudden he starts talking to me again and we decide to meet. And we had sex again! Im not sure what kind of feelings he has for me or what I have for him. Did I make a mistake?

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Answer #1

personally I think you made a little mistake, because now he thinks he has all the power over you even though you are no longer his girlfriend. maybe you still like him, I would go talk to him about it.

Answer #2

Well, I’m not really sure.

But I think something there, if you two meet up again after yalls break up & end of having sex.

There had to be a connection. Best thing to do, is talk to him about it. Hope everything works out.

Answer #3

If you are not sure of his feelings.. why would you have sex with him? Sometimes guys do use girls to get sex from them! If there is no commitment, and you dont know his feelings.. then yes you made a mistake by having sex with him. Your letting him get what he wants!!

Sex isnt something to just be thrown around.. is something two people share.. Its something that has consequences if not done the right way.

Your young.. You dont need to be giving a guy what he wants.. Do whats best for yourself!

Answer #4

IF any THING you DID THE RIGHT THING…U OBVIOUSLY HAD SOME SORT OF FEELINGS FOR HIM AND you NEEDED TO EXPRESS THEM TO ACTUALLY START TO FIGURE THEM OUT…U DEFINITLY DIDNT DO A WRONG THING; HOWEVER, I WOULD SAY TO MAYBE DECIDE BOUT your FEELINGS TOWARDS HIM BEFORE HAVING SEX AGAIN AND IF you CANT FIGURE THEM OUT TRY TO EXPRESS your SELF A DIFFERENT WAY

Answer #5

he doesn’t even have feelings for you. He;’s using you for sex. Can’t you see that? He’s using you for physical pleasure and that’s NEVER okay.

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