Debit card

It depends on the type of account you have. Do you receive the statement or does she?

yes, more than likely she can

yes, by the bank statement that comes monthly, or like if she has the actual bank account # and she can call and hear all the transactions that are pending or that already cleared.

I think she can

for purchases you dont want anyone to know about use an atm and take out cash.

I get the statement

Yepp they can because in fact I bought something with my debit card that I didn’t want them to see and they did and I got in crap :S

It wasn’t anything bad I bought a couple wonder bras from victoria’s secret haha I just don’t need her giving me a lecture on how I shouldn’t worry about the size of my boobs. It would just be a little uncomfortable, my mom and I aren’t really all that close and that could be kind of awkward.

She can see a purchase at victoria secret, she cant see exactly what you bought there… for all she knows you could have bought perfume…

Im pretty sure my mom wouldn’t care to really check what im buying just because she pretty much already knows what I do buy (clothes, makeup, shoes). And my bank statements are only mailed to me. Lol I don’t know I just don’t want an awkward moment or have her complaining about how much I spent.

thank you ty! I am glad to know this and happy to avoid an awkward moment, she knows I buy clothes from there all the time, so I guess it’s cool.

Even on your bank statement it just says how much and when… not what exact pieces… I wouldnt worry… (though you might wanna start looking at your statements so you know this :P)

These were the first purchases I made with my card although I have had it for quite a while, so I did not know they show up on the statements.