Would you date a coworker?

I wouldn’t think twice. It depends on how you take break-ups though… If the relationship was to end you would not want to be feeling awkward and embarrassed in that person’s presence all the time. I have the - unfortunate :D - reputation of being a ‘good ex-boyfriend’, so these kinds of problems would be of no concern to me. Plus the women I work with a pretty easy on the eyes, so that probably weighs heavily on my judgement of the situation too :P.

If you like this girl then you should tell her. If something happens you will regret not telling her

I would not date a co-worker. A male friend of mine and I worked at the same place. He was dating one of the girls who worked there. One day I had come around the corner in the cafeteria to draw a cup of tea. The girl he was dating was sitting at a table with a group of other girls. I was shocked to hear her giving all of the lurid details regarding their last date (these girls had a rating system for their bf’s). He eventually found out what was going on and it certainly wasn’t through me because I never mentioned it to anyone. They broke up soon after that and he had to live down the details of his lackluster performance (her opinion) during their last encounter. I don’t believe that dating someone you work with is ever a good idea. I know of other situations, similar to the one I just mentioned, that embarrassed one or both of the individuals involved. Try working when people are looking at you strangely, snickering and laughing, talking in low voices so you can’t hear, and you know they’re talking about you. Because it’s your job and you spend a lot of time there, your options are limited (among them, leaving). It’s just a really bad idea.

Certainly not! I wouldn’t even think of dating someone who orks cows {:^P