How to help my friend who loves a cheater?

I HAVE a friend whom realy love this guy but the guy cheat on her at her face and said she is wasting her time

Answer #1

Just tell her the truth. Tell her that she can;t forgive him if he;s cheated on her. Depending on how far he went with the girl he cheated on her with.

If he just kissed her, I think that can be forgiven. But if he had sex with her, I don’t think that, that can or should be forgiven.

Answer #2

u have to tell her becuase even though she may get mad at first and say that u are jealous or hatin and all that other stuff stupid people say when they are blind to the facts of their messed up life. but if u dont tell her then ur almost as bad as he is because u didnt try to help her and u knew what was going on and what was being done behind her back. so yeah tell her if not for her for urself

Answer #3

Dear sheila, When we give advice to our friends we have two questions in mind first…if I tell her to stop dating will she take it into consideration or will she never speak to me again. You must be will to accept that she may become mad and not speak with you. If you are willing to take that chance, then talk with her. She will be very hurt in the end and perhaps wished someone who cares about her would have been straight forward with her about it. On the other hand if she is old enough to know better perhaps she feels she doesn’t deserve more, doesn’t deserve to be treated better? Then I suggest you steer her to counselling. Sue…good luck

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