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Crush who has a kid??

Im only seventeen, but I’ve met this boy who is 19 who has a 4 month old daughter. We met at my job, and we have a lot in common. We hung out a few times, and just watched movies and stuff..but we started talking about having a relationship last night, and im not sure what to do. We definitely have a connection, we get along so great..but the fact that he has a kid is deifntely bothersome.im in no way ready to raise a child. Im only seventeen, and still in school. He doesnt have custody of her, but he sees her a lot. My mom would never approve of him, for having a child so young. Should I try it out with him, or wait until im older, or just stay away?

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Answer #1

just try it out, I’d say…I’m into a guy who has an 8 month old and it is kinda weird…but once I saw him with his son I just thought he was that much more amazing.

however, if it really bothers you that much then I wouldn’t advise it. you need to figure out what you’re comfortable with and what you’d be willing to sacrifice for him.

you also need to understand what it says about his character that he’s actually sticking around and being a dad for his daughter. a lot of guys his age wouldn’t

Answer #2

I’d say go with it. I’m going out with a baby dad as well. if you really do have strong feelings for him like I do, I’d say go for it mama. I met his 6 month old son & he’s an amazing little boy that I’m starting to love. I’m just letting you know, there might be some baby momma drama, if you think he’s worth it I’d say go get em!

hope I helped. :]

Answer #3

If you’re put off by him being a father, then you should definitely move on…

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