What should I do about my stepdad's cousin "touching" me?

Well my stepdads cousin is a very.. Odd person, He seems to spend a lot of attention on me. One night I was leaving this room, he comes up behind me and pulled me close to him and rubbed his hands real close to my “No No Zone!” And that same night he and i were in a dark room Alone, he started “tickling” me and I told him to stop and he started to lift my shirt and touch my sides! I then pulled my shirt down, he then tried to make me lay down with him on a bed. After I told him no he got up and left. (this guys like in his thirties and I’m 13) He touches me a lot and gives Really long Tight hugs. Am I over reacting or his he a creep?

Answer #1

First I think you need to change your age on here if you are really 13, & yes he is creepy. I think you need to tell an adult, your mother, stepfather, someone that knows him. He could have really bad things planned for you, get help fast.

Answer #2

REPORT REPORT REPORT ….HUGE Red Flags..do not ‘let it slide’

Answer #3

I’d be very cautious of this person… As TwiddleMuffin said, you need to inform an adult about this. They might know what his true intentions are, or in the least they will protect you from him and make sure you are never alone with him. You are 13, and if you already think this person is ‘odd’, then I would say there is a definite problem here and you need to seek help from your parent(s) / guardian(s).

Answer #4

I agree with everyone on this. You should report this immediately to your parents or anyone you trust. You are 13 and a girl, if you think this behaviour is ‘odd’ then it is as youve underwent the situation and observed how your stepdad’s cousin looks at you and behaves with you. Report this fast!!

Answer #5

I’d kick him in his jewels if he touched me… Everyone will know was up then when he screams and frops to the floor lol… But ya a real creeper… I would tell someone and protect yourself. You cant trust people these days. Some weird sickos out there.

Answer #6

This man needs to be reported. If you go to your parents and they refuse to do anything, then you talk to your school nurse. The school nurse will be obligated to report this to the authorities. What this man is doing is wrong and I can unfortunately tell you, from experience, that he will continue to try more and more with you until he does something that will be totally and completely unforgiveable. You need to stop him now. If all else fails, go to the police yourself. Situations like this escalate until the perp gets what he wants. If you think that what’s happened to you thus far is bad, wait until you are trying to emotionally recover from being raped.

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