Crazy siblings!

tell them to back off so what if they cry and dont let anyone see or here you let yur step bro do his own thing and when he get sout of the house for a while, let your parents get out of the house for work and when your like babysitting them or somethin tell them they will get in trouble and say it until they cry and when your parents cry tel them you didnt do it they hit their heads on the door lol itl work trust me oh and before you do any of that~ be an angel dont yell, dont scream just put up with it then seize yur perfect chance and good luck lol

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  I would suggest that you take the time to write down ALL your grievances and then see if you can get your dad to have a FAMILY meeting where ground rules can be set.

It’s going to be about communication and mutual concern and respect for each other.

um… I don’t know maybe you can become friends to your new step bro & have him help you control them lol or try spending time with them getting to know them the change maybe hurt them & there taking there anger & sadness out on you try sitting them down & asking them how do they feel about you being there new sister & let them know your there for them if they need anything etc. I hope I’ve helped you with this siblings can be a real pain I have 3 too :)

ok…the cat thing is totally out of order! I would point out that it’s not hurting you, but it is cruel to the cat…I’m quite vindictive, so I would take a picture of the cat a bit shaved, stick a bit of ketchup or fake blood on the cat and send it to al her friends to let them know how much of an evil cow she’s being!!…but I probably shouldn’t recomend that, since that won’t help, but it would make you feel better!

ok, the 16 boy, he’s cool then, yeah? he would be, he’s a boy living in a house with 3 hormonal girls (I’d keep a low profile too lol!!)

and the girls, well, they’re being spiteful girls! it’s actually quite normal…are you an only child? if you are, this must have come as a HUGE shock to you! seriously..all of a sudden it’s the brady bunch gone wrong!

and girls are often harder to tame than boys…they’re more willfull!

personally, I’d write a note to my dad, it’s obvious you don’t get a lot of time alone with him, so give him a note on his way to work, so he has some time to digest what you’re saying…new relationships where children are involved is always VERY difficult, especially when the children are older…

just becuase your step mum and dad work, that’s no excuse for ignoring what’s going on in the home…you are all both their responsibility now…and part of you all being able to co-habit is communication and more important BOUNDARIES!!!

in the note I would say, dad, I know you have ??? now and she makes you really happy, and I’m really glad your happy again with her. but I’m sad, I feel violated in my own home, my privacy gets constantly invaded and the girls are cruel to me…emphasise you really didn’t want to do this, but you don’t know what to do anymore. you’ve tried getting on with them, and they don’t seem to want to accept you…

you need to recognise that your dad probably doesn’t feel like he has a duristiction over her children, but he’s SO wrong! you all live in the same house, this isn’t about her kids and his kids, this is about 6 people living in a house!

but you need to look as innocent as possible…be sickenly nice, ask them if they’d liek to do things with you. work out the 8 year old, there’s the weak link there…what does she like to do? get HER on your side…make friends with her etc…sheley is at an age where she wants to feel part of something, just make sure YOU’RE that something…it’s not malicious…but once alison sees that bryce and shelley have both accepted you and get on with you, her little army will be looking very weak!!

it’s not palying dirty, it’s about making another allie…and at the moment, there is a war going on…allision and shely may never accept you, but as long as you can say ‘I’ve tried really hard’ then you can’t be held to blame!

where’s your mum by the way?