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Can my husband be trusted?

me and my husband have been marriied 3years we have lived together for8 , at his job he has been talking to this woman who works there now he is telling me he would like to take her out and get to know her better he that it would be ok if I come alone too but I ask would there be times when you would like for it to be just you and her hie answer was yes so that we could talk about the problems in our marriages and he could get adviser from her ./.he says im seeing everything in the wrong way he already told me he has fellings for her and that they wouldnt want her husband to find out .futher mopre he also telling me shes very attractive and has a nice body and he thought she over all looked better then me .do you think he can be trusted ? do you think Im been over concerned

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Answer #1

If all that you are saying is true, then the answer is a resounding, "no, he can't be trusted." Why would you put up with a guy like this? If he's willing to admit he has feelings for her, that her husband shouldn't know, and that she is more attractive than you, it seems obvious that something not right is going on here. You need to stand up to him and not question yourself. If you really thought he could be trusted, you wouldn't ask peoples advice on this website. I think you're in some form of denial. There's no reason to stay in a relationship with someone who won't be true to you. You deserve better.

Good Luck!

Answer #2

He sounds like a horrible person and by the sounds of things you deserve way better you shouldnt have to put up with that , I think you should get out now before you get heart broken but i could be wrong so , even though this sounds weird .. follow your heart

Answer #3

how is he now :P

Answer #4

When in doubt. Ask him.

Answer #5

i don’t think this question should be answers 8 years later but i think you should tell him that you are worried and want answers.

Answer #6

He tells you that he is attracted to someone else and wants to spend time with her. If he had the chance he will cheat or leave you for her. I have seen this on this site before. People making the mistake of hooking up with coworkers. Ruining marriages.

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