Controling boyfriend?

First off, let me say I am really happy with my boyfriend. We get along great, I am giddy when I am with him, I dont feel stressed or anything like that.

The problem is we live two hours away because I am in college. He doesnt want me to have any friends that are guys. When we talk on the phone, he will get all angry and start yelling about how he doesnt want this guy to be in my room, even if my room mate is home. He wants me to leave the room.I have been friends with him for about a year now, and it is strictly friends.

I try to tell him this but he still doesnt want me to hang out with him. He also gets mad if I go out and he can hear other people in the background. We have been dating for about a year now and he used to get really mad at me about my brother, and if I was being lazy at home and things like that.

I really love him, and he is really nice to me now. He tells me he loves me and he thinks I am beautiful.so please don’t bash him or any thing like that, I just want to know how to talk to him about this stuff. Any help you can give me?

Answer #1

first of he sounds very insecure about your relationship if you can’t have any guy friends..what do you mean by he’s nice to you now..I can sit here and tell you I’m in love with you and that your beautiful and make me the happiest person in the world..words don’t mean crap it’s his actions that speak the loudest..if you let him control who your friends with hard to tell what he’ll try to take away from you next..does he have friends that are females?..does he go out at all without you?..your young you need to have fun..believe me when you finish school and start working you’ll enough drama to put up with..you need to go find a nice rebound and kick his controlling butt to the curb..oh and about your getting along great is that just when your being a good girl and doing what your told..

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