Why did people like me better when I was a bad person?

Probably because you’re more mature than they are and they think you’re ‘uncool’ now or something like that. Although, in reality, you’re just smarter and more grown up than they are :) Find new friends who are at your maturity level, lol.

but everyone seems to be the same, & its new people ! I haven’t seen the other people I use to hang out I’m talking about in school yeah people talk to me but then they talk about me behind my back & seriously its getting irritating , & tell me how I got suspended last week & already some girl that hates me started talking to me ?? like really ! now she back on not talking to me like i dont get it

*it was my first suspension of the year btw I’ve changed a lot

because they are immature.

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there are no mature people in the school I go to !

I guess?

It is! They’ll soon realize it and want to change as well (: Just be the person that will make YOU happy. If they are TRUE friends, they will support you no matter what! (:

Not everyone will get on with you. some may think you are insincere and have not really changed, some may think you are ‘boring’ and some may just not be bothered to make the effort to get to know you. Why don’t you try and enrol in some clubs and extra-curricular activities to meet new people who are more likeminded? You could do this outside of school too if you look into classes at local sports centres or so on.

Give people a chance to get to know you and just be yourself and friendly. That way they will hopefully warm to you. Don’t pay attention to bitchy comments, people just do not like to believe you have bettered yourself. Be the bigger person and just ignore them and prove them wrong.

Not many of the ‘popular’ people at school liked me, as I was shy. I just paid attention to people I thought were worth getting to know though and just tried branching out my inetrestes to meet people, and I ended up with some friends for life. Even if things do not improve too much at school, remember that you will not be there forever and it is only a short time to endure in the scheme of things. Focus on things outside of school for now and know that in the future you will meet fantastic people who will not judge and want to know you for who you are. As long as you do your best not to get in the way of people and just act nice and civilised then you will not be hated.

well I guess they weren’t true friends & thank you :)

Just because “being bad” is more of a “cool” thing now. And know if your not bad your not cool. Which is wrong and imature. You will find those people who accept you for who you are, it just takes time and also talking and getting to know people. Try going to clubs you like, try getting into student council, or leadership so you can find some mature people there.

I can’t do any clubs I baby sit & I hardly even get sleep but you are right thank you :)

no problem! Stay strong (:

Same with in my school. I’ve just learned to deal with it and keep to myself at school :P.

thank you :)

I feel you lol

Your welcome :D

Drama.

Its not that people liked you better, Its the wrong people you looking for acceptance from. remember that the one person that must like you is YOU. Everything else falls into place.

lol

:) thank you your right

being bad probably made u seem interesting to them…some ppl like being bad but they are weary of the consequences so they live through their friends or just watch tv.

Cuz you would then match your peers . If they don’t accept you now don’t take it personally just remind yourself ‘ I don’t belong to that gang or crowd ‘ and don’t let yourselves fake being bad again its worthless you won’t get true friends like this .

lol ok thanks

thanks(: