Confusion

Okay. Well I was going out with someone for almost a year and he broke up with me bcoz he says he didnt want to be with me bcoz he likes someone else, I then found out he kissed her and he wanted to get back with me I then gave him 3chances to get back or stay as frends and he sed frends but then he wanted me bk so I took him back and then last friday I dumped him bcoz he was beig horrible and now he wants me back but during thetime we’ve been apart someone sed to me that he asked that girl out and told her he loved her but he told me it was all lies and friday night I stayed at my boy mates house with 3other boys and kissed, and had sex and other stuff with one boy, who came on to me. Today another mater sed that he wants to ask this girl out but there is another guy which I found out was my ex boyfriend who I do actually still love but dont want to be with him bcoz of the lies and arguments and him being nasty to me and he says thatslies to.

Another thing is that the boy who I slept with,had sex, kissed and that I really like him but I know that nothing is ever going to happen between us unless we get drunk again. Also when we were sobe rhe sed he wants to be f*ck buddies and to be honest I dont actually mind it means I could be with him but I think he is avoiding me anyway. But I cant go up and talk to him bcoz he isnt like that. But I just cant get him out of my head.

Do you have any ideas about what I could do? What should I do? Will I get over him?

Anything else?

Answer #1

fair enough but I like him but when I got with him I didnt like him at all it was only like a day or two after that I reaslised that I did like him,

Answer #2

He’s playing you and you don’t even realize it hun. Open up your freakin eyes!!!

He is pretending to care about you, then when people are around, he only says you are f*ck buddies. That’s a reg flag there.

Seriously, have some respect for youself and you body, and leave both of these guys alone.

Answer #3

I already have feelings for him and he even sed about being fck buddies even if we had girlfriend and boyfriend but that would hurt them.but only to be fck buddies when we go round our frends

Answer #4

F*ck buddies does nothing but get you hurt. Your going to end up having feelings for him, and he wont like you. Just because you sleep with him, does not mean that he has feelings for you. He has already said that he only wants to sleep with you nothing more. You cant make someone like you. Respect yourself more and dont sleep around with him. Have some respect for your body.

As for the ex, dont even talk to him either. He wanted another girl! Why would you put yourself through that.

Leave them both, they are both losers.

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