Confused just a little bit

Um ok. My name is andre and I just met this girl named crystal 1 week ago. And we started to communicate and text each other for a while. Then her boyfriend got involved and he started to get jealous over me and her relationship though it was just a friend ship he was still jealous. So they got into this big argument and broke up. (remind you that they have issues trust issues everything in the book.) now its been a week since this whole thing and they are on and off and constantly arguing about things that’s stupid. So now between them I’m caught in the middle because the boyfriend is constantly saying shes cheating on him with me,and me and her are flirting, me and her are going out and me and her this and that. Which is not true at all. Then she calls me crying saying she doesn’t know what to do and how she wants to leave him but she still loves him. I’m getting put in a situation that I don;t want to be in. This has been going on for 3 weeks now and just yesterday I called her and told her that like. I wasn;t comfortable with being put in between them and that I don;t think we should talk until this whole mess is cleaned up. She gave me attitude and said what ever but. I think it would be the risk to take if shes trying to get back with him. Am I right or wrong for telling her that we shouldn’t speak until everything is fine.?

Answer #1

oh wow thats a tricky situation. But I think you were totally right tell her that you shouldnt talk. She is putting you in a situation that makes you feel uncomfortable, and she might be mad at first but its not that she is mad at you she will just be sensitive cause of the whole situation. Im sorry for you. This situation is not a fun one. Everything will be ok. They will either get together or break up and then I think youll be ok. Hope I helped! Good luck!

Answer #2

You are sooo right in doing that. She has to make a choice and if you wouldnt have done anything she would be talking to both of you at the same time and she would never make up her mind and this would go on and on and on. so you did good. If she is not willing to move on then she is not rite for you. There are soo many girls out there with no problems that im sure would love to be with you.. good luck

Answer #3

thanks very much for the advice!

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