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I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 3 years (3yrs in August), we live together and have a house. He has horrible jealously issues and I have been patient with him but now it seems to be making me pull away. Every time I come home, he always has questions about guys that I may have talked to you or even seen! He always says he’s joking but I know better than that. I have never given him any reason to think I would cheat on him, he actually cheated on me in the early months of our relationship! I’ve been working at finishing my degree so he pays for almost everything that my part time job can’t. He always uses that against me, it seems he enjoys the control he has over me. We moved away from my home together and I am feeling trapped and lost, I have no resources here and no money. I know that if I wanted to I couldn’t leave because I have no where to go and no ability to support myself. We have been fighting like crazy and they are really intense fights almost every day! I don’t want to have sex anymore and I feel a lot of hate and anger towards him lately. I need advice on what to do and how to get out of this potentially toxic relationship!!!

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hes asking you questions about other guys because hes cheated on you, and hes feelin a lil insacure because hes cheated an thinks you will, you should try saving a bit of money up from your part time job if possible, so you do have a bit of money urself so that if your relatinship does en du have a bit of money 2 fall back on and support your self etc, try talking to him about the jealousy thing and if the conversation does get a bit heated walk away and tell him you will only talk when hes calmed down beacause you dont want 2 argue any more, if you want to be with him then tel him his jealousy needs to stop because its driving you away and to me he does sound a lil bit controling, and using him paying 4 your degree as a way 2 get at you when you argue gud luck x

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