Confused about my guy friend

I have a guy friend we met at work he works in a different department and at first I wouldnt speak to him because he seem kind of strange but then we started talking he has takin me out to lunch several times and he has been to my house several times. We hung out he always compliment me on how pretty I am. And I know he know that I have taken an intrest in him beyond friends because I have ask him. He says things like I dont want to date co workers. And that he could never love a woman and so forth yet just recently he invited me over his house. And we chilled and drink and watch tv. He does nothing he looks at my body parts because I catch him all the time. But he is real distance at times and at time he will be really comfy. He confuses me because at times he acts like he’s intrested and at times he acts like he’s not. He inquired about me through a friend of mine when he first started at the job. But I dont know what to do should I just leave it alone or what?

Answer #1

He’s confused about his own feelings and position in all this.

Just leave him alone to sort things out for himself.

And please, stop typing all in caps, it makes it difficult to read your question

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