Should I have an abortion?

this is to both of those who have posted that they are prego and what not. im 26 and i have had two abortions and i also have 3 kids that i have chosen to keep. it is a decision that you and only you can make. you will always have people tell you what you should do and things like that but its not up to them and the options you have are your options. the reason why i chose to have them are personal to me as your own choices are. i have 3 beautiful children i am raising on my own and there are times when its hard but i feel i made the best decision for me and my other children. its hard and there are issues you deal with after having an abortion…its not easy it really isn’t…but you have to make the right decision for you and remember there is no right or wrong answer no matter what anyone tells you…thats why god gave you free will and your child will be in heaven waiting for you if that is your decision. and no you won’t go to hell for it…there is nothing that i can recall in the bible about abortion…they didn’t have it back then. this choice is up to you and either choice you make will be costly but you can get through anything as long as you make the choice be yours and yours only…if you have any questions just ask me…im new to this site but im sure you can find me. best of luck…with any decision. and yes the decision is up to you not the father he has nothing to do with it nomatter what…they can say all they want but when that baby comes you and only you will be taking care of that child regardless of the matter unless you choose the other optioin…men have the option of walking away (no disrespect for those who do take care of their own) and yes my children are all with the same guy.

hey, i obvaisly can’t tell u what is right for you but just remember it is totally your decision. you may be thinkin twice about having a abortion , just so the father knows it s your decision and he cant influence you, but there is other ways of showing this than just going in the oppasite way of his opinion. i bet before you had your 2 yr old son, you thought you would not be able to cope, but somehow things have worked themselves out and if u you chose to have this baby, things will do again. You dont ave to spend the rest of your life with this man, or anymore of it, that is you decision also. but your 2 year old son will be fine and you will be fine, trust me there are many many single parents out there who go on to mee tht man of there dreams. the father of the child/ren also can/ should contribute money towards his little one/s. no matter what your relationship status.

in the future use contriception untill u are sure of what you want.

Dear tete07, Not sure about the laws but there is a limit on the time you can have an abortion. I am assuming it is very close in your case. You made the statement you didn’t want an abortion..so why the question. You already know what you want or don’t want..there are many options after the baby is born. It’s normal to feel the way you do about the situation and I urge you to go to counselling. No matter what you choose to do it will effect the people around you mostly the 2 year old. So if you want to do everything you can start with counselling. Sue..good luck

Nobody can make the decision for you. Your options are, an abortion, have the baby and put it up for adoption, or have the baby and raise it yourself as an effectively single mother. Regardless of what anyone tells you YOU are the person who has to live with the decision for the rest of your life so you have to decide.

DONT!! IMEAN U NEVER KNOW 1 PERSON CAN CHANGE THE WORLD BUT 2 BAD U HAD AN ABORTION,

No that is killing another human being!!!