How to keep confidence that you already have?

Ignore them remember that the people who matter are the ones who don’t mind and the people who mind are the ones who don’t matter.

William shakspere ponce said “ above all to thine own self be true.”

BE who you want to be no matter what and the rest well it follows either way life will go on.

Dark wolf

this is what my best homeboy told me a wile back; theres times and situations when you just have to relax and stop worring let what ever’s going to happen happen,.
hope it helps you .

you escape it by making something really great of yourself to keep your mind off it - maybe by helping others - maybe you could help with children at a church, or at a daycare or library - reading to the kids. maybe by engrossing yourself in multiple fundraisers that would benefit the elderly (visit seniors), or just becoming someone that everyone will look up to by showing that you are helpful, caring and also smart and beautiful!

well the other answers are great ideas. but I would like to add my 2 sense. you are absolutely beutiful! and there for those strangers wispers are most definatly not amed at you. and as for people that know you that are wispering if they don’t like you then they can leave. be who you are, and don’t let anyone tell you that you need to change!

what others say about you is absolutely none of your business. so never mind what others say because there always will be people who dont want to see you moving ahead. constantly remind yourself how much you have accomplished without them, trust me it helps a lot. finally be proud of yourself, keep your head up and your chest out because life has great things in store for you.

Want to try something DIFFERENT ??? just do the following RIGHT NOW ;

1–chant ‘hari om’(hari as in HURRY & om as in HOME without the ‘H’) do this repetedly & a point will come where you will feel like you just want to close your eyes ( in that case case do it).At this point increase the number of O in om like HARI OOOM & then —HARI OOOM— & so on.when you chant this VEDIC MANTRA then remain silent (no thinking!,fidgeting,moving,etc) for an amount of time taken to chant this one mantra.this looks very very simple but its effects are very very very large (even ALBERT EINSTEIN would not had imagine it !!!). this is called ‘CHUP SADHANA’ & I learned it from ‘param pujya ASARAMJI bapu’.—>”www.asharam.org “

also read folowing http://hariombooks.googlepages.com/english_book_TheSecretOfEternalYouth.htm http://hariombooks.googlepages.com/Elixir_of_life.htm it will help remove all weakness from you,believe me millions have obtained benefits from it ,literally.

note: women during their periods are not to chant OM but they can chant HARI

this I say to you on basis of teachings of ‘param pujya ASARAMJI bapu’

http://www.ashram.org
http://www.hariomgroup.net http://www.hariomgroup.org http://hariombooks.googlepages.com/english_book_TheSecretOfEternalYouth.htm http://hariombooks.googlepages.com/Elixir_of_life.htm

Yoga…your friends right

but its not always the best choice escaping things dont fix it so try to fix your problems then do yogaa

if you escape your problems thay’ll always find u