Cant get over him..please help

Im sorry about the break up… BUt at least the friend part happened… But for him to start acting like a jerk was wrong. No girl deserves that to happen to them. It’s very normal for a girl to not be over a guy she really cared about within a month. And although he is, and has moved on, I think you should to. You just need to let him go. Don’t hold on to the memories forever, just learn from them. And I’m NOT saying you need to get a new boyfriend; Just start talking and have some fun. Just don’t give yourself a reputaion. By the way, I bet you’re very beautiful. I am also a girl ith brown skin and dark hair, and not to sound concited or anything,but I get comments saying that I look pretty or as guys say “hot”. And if you’re shy, who cares??? Guys like it. But at the same time, show confidence. Guys like that too. I promise you, the guy world does NOT revolve around girls with blonde hair and blue eyes. Smile a lot more… You’ll get more attention. I hope I helped in some way.

First of all tina is kinda right you are young and you will have to face more of these chalinges and you need to realize this is reality in the world its hard out here. You also have to understand you probly loved someone who did not even exsist! If this guy was able to get over you as fast as he did he probly never loved you in the first place, now this may seem harsh but its realy liberating cause it means he was not real with you wich mean the “pearson” you think this other girl has that you want back and so on an so forth is not real! your not missing any thing trust me. Good luck hun I’m sure u’ll b fine :)

Im sorry about that but at times when you feel like your about to break down you should know that you are broken up and you hate for doin that. I get it you love him but is it really love??? if it was it wouldvr lasted forever. But did it? Maybe you should go out with someone else you have to get over him sooner or later. but in life everyone will have this happen to them. but if he couldnt handle you then why would he b able to handle her? and next thing you know it he might come crawling to you when he gets dumped but in your head everytime you see him just think of all the things he did to u… has to be bad thinds lol. Hopefully you get what you need but if I were you I wouldnt EVER go back to him just turn around and keep walkin and dont turn back.

Whomp. You need to realize that you’re 16 years old. You’re going to go through a million more of these heartaches throughout your life, this is just the beginning. Just stop cyber stalking him and mooove on. Why do you keep looking back? That is not where you’re headed. look forward and stay strong. Stop thinkin about what your missing and start thinkin about all the things you have that others are missing. Breaking down over a STUPID boy is weak and despicable. PUSH FORWARD. forget him and his new girl.

PS: and remember, keep ya head up kid ‘cause LIFE GOES ON.

Same thing here. We were together for 2 years, and two days ago he dumpedme over a text..