How can I get my boyfriend to spend time with me?

Well, this new boyfriend i have, is absolutly perfect, treats me right, would do anything for me, protectme etc, however, he finds it a lttle hard to open up to me, plus, his job has him working from half five in the morning till 6 at night, which means hes always extremely tired when he sees me and has togo home early becuase of it :( even before we got together and we were just talking, he never took me out on a date he never impressed me with anything, and i feel as if hes just got to comphertable to quickly, weve only been together for a month and a half but we havnt been on one single date :( i dont know what to do :( i feel like an idiot asking him to take me out and i feel bad makin him do it cause hes tired :( i just feel a little alone with him :( x

Answer #1

You need to talk to him. If he is perfect as you say, you should be fine opening up to him. I find it difficult to open up myself, so don’t rush in there telling him how you feel. Try to go slowly, maybe you could each agree on a day of the week that you will go out, just something like going for a meal we’re you can both relax, have a nice time enjoying each others company.

Answer #2

If he’s working, there’s not a lot you can do, but talking to him is probably the best thing. If he has texting, text him during his work hours (and then WAIT for him to respond. Don’t spam, it annoys). This will allow more communication than otherwise.

Answer #3

always visit him and treat him like a baby, and whenever he is upset try to make him happy all d tym

Answer #4

like evan said if he is working you really can’t do anything, but if you do something before he getts home to intreeg him into staying up he just might not feel bothered by the thought of you keeping him up. not that that is a bad thing if he is “the perfect man” he will want to spend time with you even if he isn’t a hopeless romantic who would go to the end of the earth no the end of the universe to save you from a foul and evil tirent. just saying do something spontianious. he wont love you anyless for it if you do or else thatisn’t true love.

Answer #5

one days you and him should have a day to your selves and talk. tell him how you feel. thats how a relationship works, you be honest and tell him how you feel. or maybe he isnt the right guy.

Answer #6

try to make him comfrtable n act coy :D

Answer #7

Starrt off by asking him to do things he would likes and is intersted in . from there he should realize its fun to hangout with his girlfriend then do things together you would like to do ! (:

Answer #8

Starrt off by asking him to do things he would likes and is intersted in . from there he should realize its fun to hangout with his girlfriend then do things together you would like to do ! (:

Answer #9

Starrt off by asking him to do things he would likes and is intersted in . from there he should realize its fun to hangout with his girlfriend then do things together you would like to do ! (:

Answer #10

Starrt off by asking him to do things he would likes and is intersted in . from there he should realize its fun to hangout with his girlfriend then do things together you would like to do ! (:

Answer #11

Talk to him and let him know what is on your mind. sometimes girls expect guys to pick up on the hints, but that doesnt always happen. and well known fact, guys like when girls make a move. But, you could also try spending time with him doing things that he likes to do. and, hopefully he would compromise and do what you like to do too.

Answer #12

u can’t force

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