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can't get over my x

I’ve been divorced for 6 years now. My former husband I have a 9 year old daughter. We have known eachother for 13 years. The problem is, is that even though we are divorced, we have always been on and off for as long as we have been apart (me always hoping we would get back together) I am the one who left, because he was a screamer.Now, this past year, he started dating a women who was a freind of mine, I’ve been so hurt that It feels worse now than the day I moved out.I cannot get over him and the hurt. I have also not dated anyone else the past year, even though many men have asked me, I just do not feel like it.I’m starting to feel ready to go out now, but I am still having a hard time getting over my x.What can I do? It’s so hard because I still have to talk to him quite often about our daughter. Any advice???

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Answer #1

Date other men and also tell your friend how you feel? i mean it might hurt their relationship but is she really is your friend she would care about you.

Answer #2

It would be very hard to get over something like this, and its very normal that you havent felt ready to date, you are doing things the right way in giving yourself time away from men to deal with the hurt you feel. You are always going to hurt, but eventually it will go away, and it will get easier to talk to him without feeling anything, now he is with someone all you can do now is forget about the romantic side of things with him and get out there yourself. Meet someone and actually give someone a chance to get to know you, when you have a good feeling about someone give it a go and try and move on, open up your heart to someone becos they arent all bad. but it sounds like you are doing very well hun.

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