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Me and my boyfriend are almost going for the month. Im really happy with him, but there’s the problems… I met him in my cousin’s party and it was like ‘love at first sight’ the problem is that he lied to me about his age =/ he told me he was 17 and now he told me he’s 18 years old. Of course my mom freaked and told me I’m not allowed to date until im 15 (I will be in about 4 months) he told me he would wait for me and my cousin said hes finishing his carerrer on computers, and that hes hardworking and good person. He really does seem like it but im scared since theres a great age difference between us. We have talked about marriage and sex but I told him my life is barley begininng and he told me ok that he understands and that he will wait for me until my parents let me date and hes going to oficially go to my parents. He doesnt smoke, he only drinks on special ocassions,and hes not really the party type person..im not going to say im ‘in love’ with him since were barley getting to know each other and he likes in mexico and me on usa(in bordertowns not very far away from each other) but I really do like him a lot! do you think hes worth my time?? He says he really does love me but they all say those same words.. What should I do?? Should I keep him waiting??

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Answer #1

aww… buddy.. I feel for you, I really do.. we have had conversations were you talked about how nice and sweet he is… I bet you the reason he lied was b’cus he didn’t want you to say no, yes thats a large age gap, but I say you’ll only be happy with the end result if you stay with him these couple of months and then “officially” date him, see how it goes.. if you don’t like the way it goes and you possibly feel like he is wanting you to do more (as hes a 18 year old lad and your going to only be 15) but that could not happen. I say that you continue going out with him cus you obviously like him and he obviously likes you. so I say go official, see how it feels and goes. then if it doesn’t go how you want it, you can go your seperate ways and he can find a girl closer to his age and you could find a lad closer to yours, cus you deserve a good lad, one who respects u, loves u, cares about and for u, all of those things. gud luck kiddo

Answer #2

thanks everybody for the advice, responding to onewaystreetolove his friends know me and talk to me pretty ok, and we have gone out with his friends and I have talked to several of them. what I mostly like about him is the way he treats women, like with lots of respect :D I really think thats what made me like him.what I didnt like at all was the fact he lied to me about his age =/ he told me that he told me he was 17, because he was sure that if he told me he was 18 I would pay no attention to him, at partially thats true since I have never dated guys that age. well, I guess im going to know him better! thanks for the advice everybody it was apreciatted!! =D

Answer #3

I think hes to old. I’ve seen this before. Even if the feelings are truely there, mostlikely they are temporary, they wont last long. What if one day he wants to go out but imbarised to bring you because you are to young.

Answer #4

He sounds like a really good person. How you described him and all, but in my personal opinion age is just a number, and if you think someone is worth waiting for then you should just go for it. I’ve done something similar to what you are doing, and were still going, and he even offered to move out over here and start school in this area. Anymore advice funmail me

Answer #5

He sounds like a nice guy but ou should really get to know him more like talk on the phone or go on a walk or have lunch find more about other than what you cousins. Say cause your cousin never say anything that’s negative about him and as we al know nobodys perfect so get to know him more so you really know what kind if guy he is hope this helps

Answer #6

he sounds really nice. but you shud make sure he isnt using u.

Answer #7

I wouldnt if I were u!

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