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Can our friendship be regained?

I have a problem. Theres this guy I used to go to high school with. We used to be best friends. He had feelings for me for about three years even though I already had a boyfriend. I dont know if he knew that I knew. Nonetheless he was really sweet. Now he has changed. He doesn’t talk to me and as stupid as it sounds, I’m not even on his myspace’s top8 anymore. He has friends up there that I know have never been as close to him as I had. He used to have nice good music (on his myspace) now he has perverted songs. I haven’t spoken to him since BEFORE we graduated high school this spring. Even at school, he’d be too “cool” for me. I’m so angry and hurt especially b/c I don’t know what has made him become so rude towards me. I want to talk to him. But I don’t know what to say. Should I even try regaining our friendship? Or just leave it at that? Anything would help. Thanks :)

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I would just let it go bc I have gone through the same situation you have many times. a lot of times when guys want to b friends with girls they want a relationship from you or just sex. when we reject them romantically then we bruise their ego and they feel insulted. hes just trying to make you feel as bad as he did when you rejected him and he has moved on obviously to his next love interest. dont make a big deal if a guy doesnt want to b your friend anymore. you know they are true friends if they stick around when you turn them down for a relationship or sex. that is hard to find in a guy friend. usually they are gay if they stay your friend after you reject them. sorry its the harsh reality of life because guys think with their you know whats and not with their hearts.

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