Funadvice Logo
+ List
More Love & Relationships Questions

Can I trick my ex

I have a 5year old girl and would love another child before she gets much old and she would love a brother or sister, I split from her dad 3 years ago but he always flurts and we sometimes end up doing you know what but he never ask if I’m on the pill so would it be wrong to let him think I’m on the pill so I can get pregnant give her the sibling she wants and have the same dad for both my children.

Become an Expert →
Answer #1

Not good — Not fair to the child or your ex… who would be unexpectedly responsible for a child he didn’t REALLY plan on — If you were together and it happened, that’s one thing, but to lie and then get pregnant from it puts it on you. To the child — it’s not fair because they wouldnt have gotten the proper chance to be with their father. You’d have to keep it a secret forever…

as someone already said — I think you already know it’s a bad idea… Even if the intention has good thoughts.

Answer #2

I say just talk to him about it. a lot of divorced couples continue to have children together so that all their children are from the same parents. it is not unheard of to do this. you should not trick him even though he doesnt know your on birth control or ask.

Answer #3

my dad had something LIKE that happen to him, he was upset though, because he didnt have any say in it… my half-sister and my dad also have a strained relationship because of the whole ordeal… I would talk to him first and tell him your plan.. especially if you were planning on raising the child without him

Answer #4

no offense but thats messed up a child should never be brought into the world through lies

not to mention he/she may have to grow up with the father neglecting it

More Like This
Advisor

Love & Relationships

Dating, Marriage, Breakups

Ask an advisor one-on-one!
Advisor

mSpyLite

Spyware, Relationships, Technology

Advisor

प्यार विवाह विशेषज्ञ ज्योतिषी - एनके शास्त्री

Astrology Services, Marriage Counseling, Relationship Advice

Advisor

Marriage Problem Solutions

Love Spells, Relationship Advice, Marriage Counseling

Advisor

tarotcardsreading.net

Psychics, Love Readings, Tarot Readings