Can I still be her Best Friend?

I had a girl like me for 2 years. We became best friends and we eventually dated. I fell in love with her and she did me. Well eventually she dumped me for another guy. (Hurts I know). I still want to be in her life because I love her. She still calls me her best friend too…

And right now that guy she dumped me for is running away (go figure) and right now she wants her best friend, but doesn’t want me as a boyfriend. I still have these feelings for her.

Should I be there as her best friend even though I still have these feelings for her?… even though I want to be more than just friends?

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Answer #1

Well sure, if you feel like you can handle it. If she dumped you for another guy that’s sort of showing she didn’t exactly care for you though. Tell her that you have feelings for her, than just holding them in though.

Answer #2

you got to think.if you love her as both friend and girlfriend you have to chose for right now.she needs you as a friend more then any thing at this moment.you have to be there for her.and you’ll go from there.but when you get there you have to remeber that not all relationships end being friends.so you will have to chose her being your friend for good or being her boyfriend and in the end is a question.

Answer #3

I’ve had this exact problem, me being the girl of course. lol. and sometimes girls just don’t know what they want, so I would definetly be there for her. obviously she sees something in you to tun to you and call you her bestfriend even when she’s taken.

just be friends and take it from there. : ) good luck. -brittany

Answer #4

well yeah!!! be there for her when your not with her during her time of need shell think you dont care about her at all and would you rather have her as a friend then not at all right think about that before you decide you want to turn your back on her in time of need who knows she might even change her mind and say “hey your the one there for me not him I made a mistake” you never know good luck by the way

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