what do i do to calm my boyfriend down and bring him back to normal?

his parents are just a little too strict and they made him angry last night and he’s still so so so so sooooo angry.. he can’t even smile.. and i can’t visit him cuz my dad’s overprotective and his mom is too…. we’re talkin online now… how can i calm my baby doown? :S

Answer #1

well you can’t. This is something that he must learn to control on his own. You are never in control of what others feel or do. Your dad sounds like he may be afraid for you to be around him while he is angry…he is probably right. If your boyfriend is still angry it is best to stay away and to allow him to calm down before you see him. You cannot communicate with someone who is angry…when he calms down then and only then will you be able to have a reasonable conversation about what has happened. Good Luck, Sue

Answer #2

it doesn’t show that he’s angry… like… he’s angry inside.. but he’s calm you know? He’s a very sensitive boy, when i cry he actually cries with me… and his mom is the opposite way around.. he tells her he loves her and she totally ignores him… i just need to bring a smile back to his beautiful face without actually being with him .

Answer #3

Hey there

Oh come dear give him a break, it happens and especially now a days people tend to lose their mind.

I agree some time parents dont want to understand that they are being over u know but u cant do a thing about it.

As sue has mentioned dont try to calm him down, you know just be with him, if you try anything it might anger him more or rather frustrate him

but when u just be with him and talk to him about special moments u shared and you like this or that about him

I m sure it will make him calm down and he will luv u even more than ever, take it from me i know this happens

Soo good luck n do let us know about it in future.

Answer #4

Just be there and listen…..you can’t fix it. He’ll calm down after he’s vented….

Answer #5

umm the besy way is to get him away from w.e he mad at.. and jusy try talking to him… usually to calm my bf down i sit in his lap and play with his hair, crack a few jokes and kiss him. but then again im on of thosse girls who is very loving and can calm people down .. idk its apart of me .. or sumtimes ill wrestle him to get his anger out.. ik sounds weird but i kantake pain and dont mind getin fiesty.. then after that me n mi bf usually start makin out an he’ll say sorry if he hert me.. and he’ll b happy again.it also depends on what kinda guy he is… i perfer more of a bad boy boxer/older/ skater/ gangster dude… lol

Answer #6

Just give him time to cool down. My boyfriend is having a lot of stress right now as well and the anger is being aimed at me now. It’ll blow over eventually and he’ll be back to himself again.

Answer #7

be there for him, allow him to vent let him knwo you;’re there for him, etc. Just do what you can. He’ll calm down sooner or later I’m sure.

Answer #8

true :)

Answer #9

happens to me too actually but sometimes i feel like i can’t do anything about it .. like i said i’m not even allowed to see him or hear his voice !! sooo thanks he’s fine i “somehow” calmed him down .. lol he just suddenly says thank u and i didn’t even know i was makin him feel better :$ glad i did though :D

Answer #10

You are always welcome !!

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