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cable bill arrived in name of husbands ex girlfiend, should I be a

Arrgghhhh! So, I’m a very insecure person, especially with my husbands ex girlfriend. They lived together 2 years ago and then she got in this traumatic car accident and was in the hospital for a long time. Well, he broke it off while she was in there…….fast forward. When we got engaged, I saw the cable bill was in her name. I got mad. I couldn’t understand why this was still in her name!? I threw a fit and he said he would take care of it. Then he told me he put it in his name. Well, the bill came today, addressed to her. I called time warner and they said nothing had been done to the account, and that he was listed on her acct as her husband! Now jeff(the idiot I married) said that they just dated and it was nothing close to even an engagement….what the hell!? How should I react.

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When we got engaged, I saw the cable bill was in her name. I got mad. I couldn’t understand why this was still in her name!?

Ok, well - he screwed up, and I’d be pissed if my wife had done that. So yes, he should expect & understand that you’re angry - and he should take care of it asap. Explain to him (carefully & slowly - trust me, guys aren’t good at the interpersonal communication / relationship stuff) - explain that he messed up, he needs to fix the cable bill name issue NOW, and then it should be over.

Hope that helps. Best, thedude.

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