What can I do to stop my brother's girlfriend from being jealous of me?

my brothers gf is jealous of me bc her parents dont really want them dating which they arent right now but they still hang out as much as they did when they were…..but she doesnt like me bc I can give my brother a hug without my parents getting mad and that we can hang out and our parents are ok with it……she is even jealous of her 10 year old lil sister bc she can hug my brother with out getting in trouble……

Answer #1

well getting jealous about that stuff is completely normal and there’s not much you can do about it because its how she feels about everything; just try to be patient and deal with it. i hope everything goes well for all of you! (:

Answer #2

Any woman who is jealous of her love interest’s brotherly hugs with siblings is confused at best and psycho at worst. There is a difference between romantic affection and affection toward relatives. Unless you fear she could become violent I wouldn’t worry about it. It’s her problem not yours.

Answer #3

Well, thats your brother? how is she going to get jealous because you hugg him I mean, does she think your going to seduce him or something ?!? & a 10 year old? seriously thats crazy !! How are you jealous of a 10 year old little girl… I think you should tell her straight up , listen thats my brother you have no reason to be getting jealous and that child is 10 so don’t worry about her …

Answer #4

She sounds annoying… god knows i would’ve spat on you her by now… but just ignore her, she a fool.

Answer #5

Spat on her

Answer #6

haha that what I said my brother and I were tlking about it the other night bc I have tryed and tryed to tlk to her but she just ignores me…..its not like im being mean to her……and yeah her 10 year old lil sister…..just bc she can hug him and sit in his lap…..and I have told her its just my brother its not like i like him or anything i mean why are you getting mad that i am hugging my brother…..and my brother has tlk to her about it……she wont change…..

Answer #7

haha she can get rather annoying……I do ignore her for the most part now…..but it gets hard to ignore her when she is hanging out with him around me….

Answer #8

Fully agree.

Answer #9

yea well I think thats just being a psyco path.. being jealous of your mans or ex or however their status is sister, and jealous of your 10 year old sister thats just retarted .. I mean what does she think her 10 year old sister is going to steal him or try something funny when shes sitting on her lap?? thats crazy, honestly if I was him I wouldn’t even pay mind to her I’d walk away from her and never be with here again or none of that, make pretend I never knew her or something lmao

Answer #10

**on his lap my bad lml

Answer #11

It happened to my cousin under different circumstances, just ignore her!

Answer #12

haha I was tlking to him about that and he was like yeah she feels like her sister could steal him……i was like oh wow she is jealous of any girl that even tlks to him…..I was like oh wow…..he is a really friendly person and always has ppl coming to him for sdvice so she is always upset…..I know this is bad but it has kinda started turning into a game bc alot of ppl know it makes her mad so theywill just wlk up and tlk to him and make her watch…..and like a week ago he had his fb up and me and my friend wrote all these status’s and then she wrote a status that was like well i guess you dont need me bc you have plenty of attention from other girls so my brother made mesay sry…..

Answer #13

oh hell no !! I would not have said sorry if I was you , I would of been like yo F**k her she seriously jealous of every girl , Instead of saying sorry I would of been like, are you jealous of our mother too, are you going to flip if our mom gives him a hug, or gives him money, or talks to him?? what is she smoking?? I’m so serious I would have had her out of my life long time ago !!

Answer #14

haha yeah….

Answer #15

Well, she doesn’t need to be annoyed with you as much as your parents. I don’t like it when parents get involved in their kids love interests (keep in mind I say that only on the presumption that they aren’t doing anything deemed inappropriate that a parent needs to get involved with). I understand how she wants to be with him…. but they can’t even hug? I mean, a hug is innocent. Why can’t they even do that? Personally I think the parents might need to loosen up some.

Answer #16

Well, she doesn’t need to be annoyed with you as much as your parents. I don’t like it when parents get involved in their kids love interests (keep in mind I say that only on the presumption that they aren’t doing anything deemed inappropriate that a parent needs to get involved with). I understand how she wants to be with him…. but they can’t even hug? I mean, a hug is innocent. Why can’t they even do that? Personally I think the parents might need to loosen up some.

Answer #17

its not our parents its her parents,,,,since she is their first born they dont wanna let her go…..bc he sister that is 2 years younger is allowed to go out with a guy……my parents are like we dont care……they thought she was a good person….no they are rethinking it…..her parents made her sign a paper when she was 10 that said that she wouldnt date till she was ready to get married and they were ready for her to get married….

Answer #18

Jealousy is a sign of “afraid someone will satisfy the other more then me.” So are you and your bother very close? Do you and your brother inter act extremely well together? If so then can you see why she might be jealous of you. You’re doing a better job then she is. Your brother likes your company and it’s obvious to her that your brother shows it. So to end that feeling she has do this, give her more attention then to your brother. That may turn it around.

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