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BROMANCE !!!!!

So I have a huge issue with my boyfriend. We have been together for over 2 years and we are happy, but there’s one thing that tics me off. His BROMANCE with his childhood boy who is 5 years younger than him ( my bf age 24, his friend age 19, me age 19) and well that’s not my issue. My issue is that when his FRIEND goes to visit him to play soccer at the park or indoor soccer he never hassles to wake up and run to get ready. And he totally forgets to txt me that he’s going to be with his boys, but when I go over to his house and want to go out all he says IM LAZY TODAY BABE, ITS TOO COLD, ITS TOO HOT, IM TIRED, IM SLEEPY. and gives me the same excuse when I ask him to come and visit me. I ALWAYS HAVE TO GO SEE HIM!!! And he lives 30min. Away. IDK WHAT ELSE TO DO =/ does he even care about me? Or is his BROMANCE stronger than our so called ROMANCE??

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Answer #1

Stop going to see him until he comes to see you. Tell him that you want him to make the same effort he does with his friends with you.

Answer #2

Yea I told him how I felt and I asked for time just so I can do me for a few days and we talked last night and he told me that he thinks that I have another man. He trys to be the victim in all of this.

Answer #3

Lol he’s just being a jerk. Tell him you’re not going to visit until he comes to you. End if story.

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