What if I really don't like my boyfriend's best friend?

I have a problem with this girl that my boyfriend is best friends with well they are really close and talk about everything and seems like they flirt and I told him and he told her and they stopped talking and its all my fault and she hates me and hes upset to cause it was his best friend but I don’t know what to do cause I really dont like them together???

Answer #1

i have the same problem.. except your more fortunate because your boyfriend picked you over her.. ine pickedhis best friend over me and we ended up breaing up over it, cuz he said he chose the one who didnt put him in such an akward decision.

Answer #2

I too have this problem. Mine has been friends with his since college (14 years or so) She is married but they always ask us to do things together. She had a massive crush on him in College. She doesn’t have a lot of female friends and so she is not as open to me…I absolutely can’t stand her. I set down some boundaries and he isn’t agreeing to them…we broke up for a few days and are now going to counseling to find some level ground.

I don’t know why I don’t like her so much…I guess the primal instince to protect your territory

Answer #3

I too have this problem. Mine has been friends with his since college (14 years or so) She is married but they always ask us to do things together. She had a massive crush on him in College. She doesn’t have a lot of female friends and so she is not as open to me…I absolutely can’t stand her. I set down some boundaries and he isn’t agreeing to them…we broke up for a few day and are now going to counseling to find some level ground.

Doesn’t change the fact I can’t stand her.

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