How do I convince my parents to let me have a boyfriend?

well, im 14 years old and my mom and dad wont let me have a boyfriend..how can I convince them to let me have one? please answer<33=)

Answer #1

You are ONLY 14. Its not like your going to be 14 forever. You’ll just have to wait until you are of age to start dating! There is nothing wrong with your parents not letting you date. At least they care about your well being. You’ll grow up soon enough.

Answer #2

get straight a’s and do extra chores and just do something random that will blow their brains from how thought full it was then just ask. or you could go to the movies with a freind and secretly have a guy meet you there and have your freind meet her freind/boyfreind there and there you have a group date

Answer #3

Well just talk to them about it with them and tell them that you will be safe and have responsibility with him.And if they still dont get it then just try every once and a while on asking them again hope I’ve been helpful. =)

Answer #4

Don’t rush. There’ll be plenty of time for that later.

Answer #5

well im 10 and I have had plenty of boyfriends but I go behind my parents backs. But its because I really like this boy and he likes me so im trying to ask him out but im not relly allowed to date but I know if I ask I will get grounded.I just let low but I have good grades and dont eva let my boyfriend get in the way of friends and school work so and my dad is the only one that wont llet me have a boyfriend but I know exactly why too.He wants me to still be his angel and not grow up to fast but the he has to realize that you can only be a kid once you have one chance and you shouldnt waste it but my life is getting complicated now that I date and its hard when your a kid with school work and maybe you have a boy friend and he dumps you then you start day dreaming bout him in class you also get off task and dont turn in assignments its really hard ya know but if you do try to have a boy friend than know it wont last long until he finds another girl maybe preetier or even smarter because thats what happended to me wit this boy named andre asmus but we are still fiends but we aret close anymore and I still have a love feeling for him and that affected my grades so right now I have a c d and an f so do wht you want because your parents can maybe control you on the outside but its you that really makes the decisions in your life

Answer #6

Well im 13 and i know how you feel but what you need to do tell your parents that you think your ready to have a boyfriend. Get your friends to meet him then have them tell your ma & pa that hes a ok guy if they dont a prove then you might not have a good guy dont do anything be hind your mom and dads back God Loves be safe when dating

Answer #7

Well honestly…at 14, you are still too young to have a boyfriend…at your age its very easy for a young girl to b soduced into physical realationships…you have good parents…they just want you to be safe…besides, its better to have friends at your age…cus if you have a boyfriend sorry to burst your bubble but you WILL break up and chances are that you too wont talk again…so just make friends for right now

Answer #8

Explain to them the reasons why you need to have a boyfriend. Honestly you should wait til’ your at least 16,17

Answer #9

honestly if your only13 and below I dont think you should have a boyfriend but I am only 10 and I have one so

Answer #10

u should cry to thm ans tell them that soon or later your going to have a boyfriend so its better for me to have a boyfrined noww so you can get used to it. soon or later your going to have to let me go and its normal. so juswt deal with it. and cry and if you can’t cry then go to the bathroom and put eyedrops an tell them what I have told u

Answer #11

Parents worry about their little girl when she wants to start dating. This is because parents KNOW it means that their sweet little angel is about to begin experiencing the incredibly awsome thrill of having orgasmic wild sex! Parents know how fantastic sex feels and fear that their daughters could even become addicted to sex! Parents are afraid that the new sex skills their daughter will be learning by dating might be used on the side as an easy way for her to receive fast cash and/or expensive presents! Parents fear that their daughter will not say no to guys who ask her to have sex with them - expecially much older guys who offer her lots of cash and expensive clothes and gifts! After all, who would ever know if she jumped in bed with an older guy for $1,000 cash? No one would ever know and she’d be $1,000 richer! Parents realize that many many daughters do exactly this and they worry. Also, parents are afraid that their little girl might become pregnant after having sex and that this could ruin their little girl’s life and hurt their own lives, as well.

Having said all this, you simply need to explain to your parents that you are sufficiently mature to start making decisions for yourself. That your parents need to start trusting your judgement, start respecting your decisions, and start letting you live your own life! Explain that you could easily have just started dating on your own - behind their backs (like many of your MUCH YOUNGER girlfriends have already done!), but that you didn’t! This is because you respected your parents enough to come face-to-face with them and you present your request to them in a mature and responsible manner as would certainly be expected from a young woman who understands that this step is a big leap of faith for parents! You need to explain that you will definitely make many mistakes and that these mistakes are yours to make and learn from. Explain to your parents that even though your body belongs to you for you to use it in any way you choose and that your parents can’t protect you forever, that even so they should be remain confident that you have been trained by them and will continue to grow and be influenced by their terrific training and that you will make them proud!

If they do decide against letting you date, you will demonstrate great maturity if you don’t throw a temper tantrum! Remember that they might just say ‘No’ only to test you to see if you really are mature! Don’t fall into this trap! Good luck!

Answer #12

you just say mom everybody in the school likes me all the boys anyway or ask them why you cant have one then just argue with her thats how I got a boyfriend and a horse and im only 11

Answer #13

Well, what I did and I’m younger then you. I asked my dad “Am I allowed to have a boyfriend?” I don’t live with him anymore, so he said he thinks I shouldnt because im to young but if my mother said I could then I can. Parents, specaily dads, dont wanna see their little angles grow up. But I am an only child, which makes it harder, so I keep sweet talking him, I have to grow up somtimes, my boyfriend is really sweet and respectful to me. Thats all I’ve done. and now I asked him if I could spend a few hours at my boyfriends house and he said hell think bout it. you just sweet talk him and if your striaght a student and really responsible then your more likely to get what you want. Hope this helps!!!

Answer #14

Well honestly…at 14, you are still too young to have a boyfriend…at your age its very easy for a young girl to b soduced into physical realationships…you have good parents…they just want you to be safe…besides, its better to have friends at your age…cus if you have a boyfriend sorry to burst your bubble but you WILL break up and chances are that you too wont talk again…so just make friends for right now

Answer #15

hola, yo tengo el mismo problema mis padres tampoco me dejan. ce lo mucho que duele pero alfin why algabo quieren lo mejor para nosotras. uno tiene que ponerse en su lugar tambien pero uno tiene que respetarlos polque son nuestros padres why pol mas duro que nos traten nos van a querer para siempre why un novio no ok espero que mi consejo te aiga selvido para algo muchas thankyou

Answer #16

Tell them your mature enought to do date and sooner or later your gonna have to start making your own decissions when you move out of home they won’t be there telling you what to do Im 4yrs younger then you I am in a relation ship nothing drastic I told my parents I explained I got In big trouble then my Gramma came over and told me how my mum started dating realy young

Answer #17

well if you like one of your guys friends and they’ve met him then your in and they know that hes nice and everything but if its someone they dont know then tell him at school to get in a real nice outfit and bring flowers to your house and give them to your parents then that may work and then your parents could meet him! hope I helped

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