Boyfriend troublee :(

Why won’t he wear a condom? Doesn’t that seem like he doesn’t respect you. He’s twenty - what’s he doing with sixteen year old? And three months doesn’t sound a long enough time to fully trust and love someone and have a stable relationship with. Wait for someone more your age ( and probably more mature ), someone you’ve been with longer and love thoroughly. Then at least there will be no regrets. You deserve better - someone who can respect you.

Don’t do it. I am not necessarily against sex outside of marriage, but this guy does not sound mature at all. He does not care how you feel. Any guy who gets ‘pissy’ when you ask him to wear a condom is not a good investment. Stop wasting your time and find someone who appreciates you and makes you feel like a queen.

Yeah I supose. Thankyou.

This guy is too old for you right now whether you wanna see that or not. Hes starting to push his “age” around with you already by wanting sex. The fact that he is 20, and has had lots of sexual relations already should tell you something. What does a 20 yr old man have in common with a highschool girl? Older guys USUALLY date younger girls because they are very easy to manipulate. They are also very vulnerable, and very naive! I hope for your sake that you arent just another notch on his bedpost, because hes been around.

If you do decide to follow through on what he wants, I suggest you TAKE CHARGE, and not let him bully you into not using any protection. How do you know if he is disease free, and just because you are on the pill doesnt mean you still cant get pregnant. The pill is NOT 100% effective! The fact that hes had many partners, and does drugs means you better think this whole thing through VERY thoroughly, then RETHINK it again! I’m sure your not going to be his last sexual partner! I’d hate to hear another girl getting used by her older boyfriend!