Boyfriend + porn.

I guess its normal…I don’t know, my boyfriend only watches it with me rite before we have sex…at least thats what he tells me.

Well Im a guy thats 17 now, I used to watch porn before I started dating my girlfriend, I just dont want to anymore it feels wrong to hurt her like that. She told me if I do it and I dont tell her she would be devastated but I really dont. Here is a fact though, some people are more imaginitive than others, its not so much to do with laziness (watching images is easier than thinking) but more to do with cognative thought, some people have difficulty getting a picture in their head and keeping it there, seriously and this can be not just sexually but in other areas as well (I really suck at maths, I try to see the numbers in my head but I keep forgetting them). Debate on this matters debatable but if you ask me (and bear in mind I dont know how old you are lol I assume your 16 - 17?) so long as he isnt SUBSTITUTING real sex or emotion with you for a machine then it isnt cheating. I just personally prefer not to.