Why is my (ex) boyfriend making it my fault?

Wow, that is harsh! He clearly isn’t worth the time of day hun, boys like that are all the same! Put it behind you, I know it’s probably hard, but just try and be happy, show him that you can do better and make him realise he’s lost more than what he’s gained.

2 things

1). He’s a coward and won’t confront you. Tell him to grow a pair.

2. He blames you because he can’t blame himself. It’s easier for him to say it is your fault which allows him to sleep at night knowing he’s truly a jerk

This is a common technique employed by members of both sexes at your young ripe nubile age. Don’t be too displeased as he lacks the necessary skill set that comes with age when breaking up with a significant other. In due time, he will learn to obfuscate, lie and generally find better ways to end a relationship. Don’t fret, you will too.

Enjoy your youth!

I’ll tell you why- it’s because he’s insecure about himself and he has trouble with taking responsibility for himself so he blames it all on you. If I were you, I wouldn’t let that slow me down. ‘Cause lemme tell ya somethin, it’d kill him more to see you happy without him more than anything. Goodluck with it gal (:

Because Deep in his heart he knows that its his fault ;)

He may be hurt, just the same as you. It makes it easier in situations like this to look for faults in others rather than faults in yourself. He is probably the same, the things he may say may be harsh, but it’s just him being upset, he most likely doesn’t mean half the stuff he says. Just try to not let it get to you, and be the bigger person :)

If he wants to be an ass ignore him I don’t get upset when my exes talk trash if they want to then let em it doesn’t upset me you just gotta take the blow and not care.