Boyfriend is clueless about vaginas.

I’ve been with my boyfriend a long time now, and he wants to finger me. I want him too, also. But he’s never fingered a girl before and I don’t think he knows quite what to do. How do I get him to maybe google some stuff, or learn about them and what to do… Without actually saying that? Help pleaseee!:):):)

Answer #1

Well, just look at that kind of stuff on here and read the questions like “how do I finger a girl” and look at some of the comments. make sure he’s with you. lol, or just the person above me said, try it the old fashion way (:

I was the first girl my boyfriend fingered, and he didn’t do anything wrong. you really can’t do anything wrong, it’s just kinda natural.

Answer #2

You know what…boys have been fingering girls for a very long time…before the internet. Just figure it out together the old fashion way. If it is uncomfortable than say so and try things until it is and feels good!

Answer #3

just let him try it. I made a girl moan on my first try

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