Boyfriend fight

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months, and I really think that he is the one. Yesterday he found some messages that I sent to a guy through myspace. He is an old friend of mine that I hadn’t seen in a long time, but he felt that through the messages I was flirting with him and has been really immature about it. What should I say to him?

Answer #1

tell him that you love him very much. And if you already told him that then tell him that the boy you talked to is just a friend, and you were not flirting. Of course i dunno what u said but…ya hope this helps.

Answer #2

Some guys have trust issues, like me, and well when they see you talking to any other guys, it doesn’t really matter what its regarding, they are going to get jelous and have a fear that you are going to do something with someone else. I would just reasure him that you understand where he is coming from, and that you must understand that I feel this way __ about you and you don’t have to worry because I would never do something to hurt our relationship. The guy in question was just a friend from a long time ago. etc etc…

You just have to realise that he may have had a bad experience in the past with another relationship and it effects other relationships as well… trust me i know this first hand. Its hard to gain trust in people. Once you have lost it from someone else.

Good luck.

Jason

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