Boyfriend drama. Help ):

Yep exactly. I found backpage.com

Yep exactly. I found backpage.com in his history under the body rub section in adult entertainment and those were supposobly popups. And the second site madeinrussia4u2.com….. I called those people and they had no record of it . And yes it is a sexual massage

They had not record of him* I’m sorry

Maybe it’s something that he was looking into but hasn’t gone yet. You’re right to be angry about it. How’s your sex life with him?

I love our sex life. But he

I’m on my phone and for some reason I can’t respond to the last post. I will do it on my comp when I get home

I love out sex life . I have a feeling he doesn’t enjoy it as much as I do. In the beginning we had sex alot then 3 months in he started watching alot of po…r…n until I found out around the same time I found out about those body rubbing links in his history. and then we started having more sex when I asked him about him watching it. I didn’t stop him from doing it just asked him not to do it when I’m around becus he would actually watch it and master…..bate to it while I was around. So it sounded like he would rather watch that and get off to that than me.

mmm why not watch po*rn with him? do something to spice the relationship or try different things or toys like maybe hes not doing anything like u have no actual prove hes cheating or anything so if i were u maybe just keep your eye open

I don’t know why I couldn’t post yesterday. But our sex life is great atleast that’s how I feel. He used to watch so much porn in the beginning of our relationship around 3 months into it. He stopped having sex with me unles he felt like it and it was very rare. I found out about the porn and sounds like that was the cause of it.. I feel like he enjoys watching porn more than he actually enjoys getting off to me. Once I found out about the porn he started to get his sex drive back. And he was telling me that they were pop ups. Do you think there is anyway they were really pop ups or is that just not possible?

Keep your eyes open- wide! I know that it’s all these little things you’ve been finding BUT… those little things are what turns into a snowball if you let it. I kept finding those little things too, and after 4 years of marriage we are no longer together. Because of all those ‘little’ things… things turned into big things. So, speaking from experience.. just be careful. If your gut feeling is telling you that something’s off, chances are that they are.

Thank you for your advice. I think it’s so unfair that these guys put us thru this kind of stuff as if we don’t have feelings and if we don’t find it in their heads they think it won’t hurt until we actually do… Do you know men that go to

And would some guy really be stupid enough to go to these dirty women who probably do this all the time with any kind of man

I am really trying to trust him becus he hasn’t yet given me any reason to believe he would. We are together every single day exept for when he goes to the gym and work. he doesnt even hangout with his friends anymore (not that i dont let him) he just always tells me he perfers to stay home and hangout with me. We’re you and your husband together all the time?

You know I think that it goes both ways. I’m sure that there are men out there, good men, who have been cheated on and hurt by women; and it’s really sad. Considering that there are good women and men BUT for whatever reason two good people rarely end up together. I’m not saying that I’m perfect but what I do know is that I’ve been good towards my guy even when he kept disappointing and hurting me. I kept forgiving and thinking that he’ll change but it just snowballed and I ended up feeling stupid in the end.

You know I think that it goes both ways. I’m sure that there are men out there, good men, who have been cheated on and hurt by women; and it’s really sad. Considering that there are good women and men BUT for whatever reason two good people rarely end up together. I’m not saying that I’m perfect but what I do know is that I’ve been good towards my guy even when he kept disappointing and hurting me. I kept forgiving and thinking that he’ll change but it just snowballed and I ended up feeling stupid in the end.

You know I think that it goes both ways. I’m sure that there are men out there, good men, who have been cheated on and hurt by women; and it’s really sad. Considering that there are good women and men BUT for whatever reason two good people rarely end up together. I’m not saying that I’m perfect but what I do know is that I’ve been good towards my guy even when he kept disappointing and hurting me. I kept forgiving and thinking that he’ll change but it just snowballed and I ended up feeling stupid in the end.

SORRY- not sure why this thing keeps re-posting the same thing but doesn’t post the text that I wanted to post.