Will my ex boyfriend come back

Try to give him the space he wanted, so he will learn from his own mistakes. Maybe, it is just hard for him to accept that he made the wrong decision, so to save his face, he doesn’t want you to be involved. But as a concerned friend, try to tell him that you will always be there for him, if he needed someone to talk to.

It is obvious that he still cares for you, but he is the only one who can tell if the feeling is mutual. Your best of friends before you become lovers, so it is a good foundation. You can be friends, if both of you will be willing to make your relationship work again.

I think hes waiting for you to make a move on him so je could know you care.

I think hes waiting for you to make a move on him so je could know you care.

100 % agree with you !

His intentions are unclear, that is if her has any. It could be that he’s waiting for you to make a move(women aren’t the only species who likes being chased). He may want you to make a move, or he may legitimately want his space(it’s only been a month). The decision to contact him or wait for him to make a move is up to you. Perhaps it’s a way of self loathing to harm himself(not you, for if it were to harm you I doubt he’d be bringing you up as much or telling you not to get involved, he’d probably be showing her off, or at least get another girl to show off). There’s a chance that you may get together just as there us a chance that you may not. Just don’t get too bent out of shape, you’re still in school so even if you do get to together again it still may not last the rest of your life, there’s still a chance of finding someone better suiting. As you stated, you guys have fought 2ce a week. Ask yourself this, can you HONESTLY see yourself with him for the long-term? If not, then try moving on. But if you say yes, then why not go for it. I honestly think you should contact him and tell him how you really feel(preferably in person or at least over the phone so he could hear your voice). Apologize for things that you may have done or said in an argument(never mind what he may have done or said, just apologize for the things you’ve done that you may not of apologized for yet), have a good talk on how your arguments might arise and =how future arguments may be prevented. Make sure you are receptive as well as responsive LISTEN to him as well as talk. See if a friendship is salvageable, once you guys come to a collective decision, if the answer is yet, see if both of you can agree to start the friendship over, get to know each other over again(almost from scratch), forgive the (negative) past, drop the past(meaning things that happen in the past will NOT be brought up again in the future in an argument or anything else, period), and work on reconstructing your friendship. If it goes well, then perhaps he may peruse another relationship with you. Best of luck, I hope this helps.