I think I love my boyfriend?!

i think that i am in love with my boyfriend? We have been dating for a while now and tell each other that we love each other after we get done seeing each other or when we get off the phone and etc. I really really like him but just want to make sure its love. And if i don’t tell him that i love him back he asks me why.. Please help.

Answer #1

There isn’t really a definite way to determine if it is love. You are the one in the relationship, and it is a feeling that you will feel. There definitely is quite the difference between liking, being in love and loving someone. A lot of people do confusing liking or being in love with love. I think, for the most part, when you do love someone you don’t question it. Don’t say it unless you are certain, it only does more harm than good. This is something you need to figure out yourself. How do you feel about him? What would you do for him? Is this all just passion? I think you love someone when you still love a person after the newness and the passion (the being “in love”) stage of the relationship or as they call it, the honeymoon stage has ended. That’s when you get into the real stuff, when you get to truly know a person. That is also when the couple has to overcome problems to stay together. Most couples break up after this stage because they get bored, or they don’t want to work for the relationship to work. That, in my opinion, was just the passionate love. Love is beyond friendship, beyond the passion. So, think on it yourself, only you can know.

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