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im 15 my bfs 16. I’ve been together with my boyfriend for like 1 month in the summer then we broke upp . then we were together for like 3 weeks then now weve been going out for 2 monthss and its gunna be 3 months on the 17 . is it too early to be having sex ?

Answer #1

my boyfriends not like that weve done other stuff and he hasnt said one word so I know I can trust him.

Answer #2

hmm yeah go for it I spose. have fun =p

Answer #3

haha k :)

Answer #4

hmm yeah id say but if your both ready and stuff then its cool. just make sure you trust him. some guys are jackasses and like to brag to the school how he had s with you or watever. just be aware. oh plus protection btw. too young to get pregnant. for sure.

Answer #5

definately. look im 17, my fiance and I have been dating for 1 year and a half, and I knew him for 4 years before we started dating, and we JUST had sex!!

okay, age isnt that big to me. its the relationship. dont make a mistake that you cant undo. if you have a habit of breaking up, then you may not want to get so attached with this step. and trust me, this will cause attachment

Answer #6

I’ve been together with my boyfriend for like 1 month in the summer then we broke upp . then we were together for like 3 weeks then now weve been going out for 2 monthss and its gunna be 3 months>>the fact that you broke up the first time after only 1 month isnt good. Then you only lasted 3 weeks the second time you got back together, is even worse. Now your back together a THIRD time. On again, off again relationships DONT work! You two dont have what it takes to make a relationship last, because you keep breaking up for whatever reason. Relationships are about commitment, so you have to keep asking yourself WHY you keep breaking up, because obviously things arent getting fixed.

Now you want to throw sex in there? Sex isnt going to make a relationship, nor wlll it save one! You need to work on the more IMPORTANT aspect like communication. You dont have a strong relationship, and sex will only complicate it more.

I recall one of your questions that your mom doesnt even know you have a boyfriend. Have you thought about what would happen if you got an STD, or pregnant? Condoms and birth control pills are not always effective. Every year one in four sexually experienced teens acquires an STD and about 1 million teenage women become pregnant.

Even if these issues do not affect you, emotional, social or spiritual scars may impact you long past the teen years.

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