What do I do about my boyfriend?

We’ve been going out for over 2 years and we haven’t had sex. I really want to but the thing is, will it eliminate the fact that there’s nothing to look forward to afterwards? I won’t make the decision just because someone told me to but I want to know what people think about this situation. What are your views?

Answer #1

If you want to have sex with him, give him hints, turn him on, tease him.

Answer #2

We discuss is millions of times lol. But I think that there won’t be nothing to look forward to after? Like the whole building up to it just goes..

Answer #3

Well, once you both have sex, you could try different positions, different things. I mean, in the world of sex the possibilities are endless. Just be safe and get him to wear something on the end of it :}

Answer #4

Well it’s bound to happen sooner or later right?

It shouldn’t change anything.

Try talking about it, if not just do stuff that can get him in the mood (turn him on)

Perhaps a sexy, lil cute outfit? :]

Answer #5

LOL that’s true. Thanks! I’ll think about it.. it’s not easy to make the decision :$

Answer #6

What exactly do you mean nothing to look forward to afterwords?

There is SEX to look forward to. And if it is good, you will have a lot to look forward too. If it is not that good, then you can look forward to improving it.

And I agree with lindsey, be careful and use protection. And feel free to ask if you need any advice with that.

Answer #7

Agreed with the above, Sex isn’t everything. There’s love, someone to spend time with, to care for, someone to be there for you, etc. However, if you feel there really is NOTHING to look foward to after sex then what are you doing with him in the first place?

Answer #8

It’ll be my first time, so it’s a little scary. I love him loads, and he loves me back, but it’s just confusing whether to do it or not. I know why I’m with him, it’s just I feel a little bit scared :$

Answer #9

There is no rule that after 2 years of dating you have to have sex. Wait till you are ready for it. If you are unsure then you probably aren’t ready.

Also remember that a lot girls are unsure or apprehensive of whether to do it for the first time or not. Just don’t rush the decision.

Answer #10

The truth is if you really want him to have sex with you just tell him… if you dont tell him he wont know

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