How can I tell my boyfriend...

Okay… not bragging or something. I think I’m a very generous person when it comes to buying gifts for my close ones. If I have money I won’t be selfish and keep it all for myself… I will be travelling in two weeks to a very expensive country where things are highly expensive. My boyfriend is kinda ( not in a direct way) telling me that I should bring gifts for his parents also!!! I know it’s annoying and I don’t know how to say NO. I will surly get him lots of gifts and his mom also because she has bought me gifts before… That day I said I don’t know what to get to your brother and father?” and he didn’t even say “ No..No need or keep the money for yourself…” I worked so hard to get my money. It’s no body’s… my parents didn’t give me a penny. He must understand that I worked hard for my first salary from government and I should spend it at least for myself! THIS TIME. even though the money is not that much. I’m known for being kind and my selfishness and now I don’t know how to tell him that I can’t afford buying gifts for his father and brother also!

P.S/ I have to buy gifts for my best friend! so he and his family aren’t alone!

Answer #1

maybe try to get little things or even like a card but why not just be up front with him that things there are expensive and you wont have enough to get gifts for everyone.. just take lots of pics and show them like u dont have to get gifts

Answer #2

or you could of asked him for some money to buy gifts for his family…

Answer #3

Yeah I have told him actually ! but he thinks of me like a millionaire or smthn haha

Answer #4

Yeah I have told him actually ! but he thinks of me like a millionaire or smthn haha

Answer #5

Yeah I have told him actually ! but he thinks of me like a millionaire or smthn haha

Answer #6

Then perhaps that’s something top discuss with him?

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