What if I liked him better when we were just friends?

Ok so before we dated we were friends and now that we’re dating it’s really weird… I liked it better when we were friends coz it was like normal but he really loves me and i don’t want to make him upset or hate me. What should i do?

Answer #1

if u dont love some1 wats the point of being with them . ur just going to hurt them becuz they love u and u dont . try talk to him and explaining it to him im sure he will understand!

Answer #2

It wouldn’t be easy because he will surely get hurt and the worse that could happen is that he may not want friendship with you anymore after break up.

But the earlier you stop pretending, the better.

Just do it in such a way that you wont hurt his “pride” too much.

Well, i dont really know. I’m sure it will really be painful for him. Things will only get better if he falls in love with another.

Answer #3

I just broke up with a guy not too long ago because I wasn’t in love with him. We were friends for a while, and I finally gave in to his constant “go out with me’s”‘ and we dated for almost 2 years. DONT GET STUCK LIKE I DID!!! He is a great guy, I just didnt love him. We are still friends, but I wish I had the guts to break it off earlier, I just didnt want to hurt him because he was so nice. It wont be easy, on him especially, but you dont want to date someone you’re not interested in, right? Good Luck, but really, think of ourself a little here, he’ll get over it, and maybe you can still talk and hang out like you used to, but it may be weird at times… like when you get a new boyfriend… sh*t gets awkward.

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