How do I get a boy who just broke up with his gf??

I want to be more gentle cause he just went through a breakup

Answer #1

depends how much they like each other and how long they wen tout

Answer #2

Gentle as in sex or gentle as you do not want to chase after him? Depends, who was the dumper, him or the girlfriend, if it’s the girlfriend, I suggest taking it slowly with him, as you were be a rebound only until he amends his broken heart and then he may move on to another girl. :(

Answer #3

i would give them about a week or two to see if they go back out bc its very possible…. if they dont then start talking to him more and maybe flirt with him and see if he likes you…

Answer #4

OMMMGG, sorry, let me fix my typing errros “who was the dumper was” “as you would be a rebound only’

Answer #5

Gentle as in I don’t want to chase after him

Answer #6

They went out for about a month. It seemed like they really liked each other, and no one saw the breakup coming. They won’t say who broke ip with who

Answer #7

Take it slowly, if his ex girlfriend dumped him, the chances of him still carrying a torch for her is high and you don’t want to be the girl he uses to get over his broken heart. If he dumped the ex, then by all means don’t worry about being gentle, he dumped her beause he didn’t want to be with her so you just push yourself in there and chase after him. :)

Answer #8

aka he is on the rebound dont go for it

Answer #9

If you really want to be gentle, you will give him some time, girl. You can’t pounce on him the second he breaks up with her. If you really like him and you really care about him, give him time, maybe he will come to you.Just let him get over her.

Answer #10

Also, just thought of what I coulda added when I said “You can’t pounce on him the second he breaks up with her” I could’ve said.. “You can’t punce on him like a cheetah!” LOLZ

Answer #11

Make sure he is moving on before you make a move. If you catch him on th rebound, then he will most likely get with you, but will dump you when he moves on from the other girlfriend.

Answer #12

SLEEP WITH HIM

Answer #13

The best thing is to be there for him…start by becoming closer friends and then slowly flirt…it should work :) good luck!

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