How do I tell the boy who is in love with me that i don't love him?

I’m 16 years old and he is 18. Everytime i try to tell him, he says that he is going to make it work and that we will be together. He has already bought me an engagement ring. help please?

Answer #1

Best bet is to get him to stop talking to you and tell him to listen. He doesn’t want to believe that you don’t feel the way he does that much is obvious but it’s only your responsibility to tell him how you really feel. What he does after that is entirely his choice. It’s not going to be pretty but you can’t be pressured into something you don’t feel is right and by the looks of it, it doesn’t feel right at all for you.

Answer #2

If you want to put a nail in the coffin, kiss another guy in front of him. But yeah might make him angry….but it will soon sink in for him. There is plenty of heartbreak yet to be had. This is only the starter! Be warned. Its called love when both people feel the same way. Its called stalking when one person doesn’t feel the same way. Well that’s what I am told

Answer #3

tell him that you dont like it and that you are in love with someone else..and to leave you alone that you dont wanna nothing with him…

Answer #4

But now that I’ve told him he still insists that I’m maturing and that “of course i dont know what love is” yet he says that it doesnt matter because i will come to love him, but i cant and ive told him that countless times

Answer #5

haha thanks

Answer #6

This guy is taking it toooo fast. He sounds like one of those guys who fall in love quick and are sensitive, so deal with him lightly. Don’t make him angry or jealous, just call him. In person it is easy for someone to manipulate their way back into the relationship, but on the phone you can stand firm and won’t have to see his puppy face (which all men give when a woman is telling them something that they don’t like). And you must be saying that you won’t love him too softly. Put some authority behind it, like I said deal lightly, but authoritative. Tell him that you will never love him. Just keep repeating until he gets it and if he doesn’t….cut him off. Don’t answer phone calls,..ignore texts….and run the other way when you see him. Cause a man that doesn’t understand the word “No” is not a man any girl would want to be with.

Answer #7

Thanks that really helps

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