Do you think I am blowing this completely out of proportion?

thanks ! :”}

what if he contnues

what would youu do?

What if he continues and acts very unappreciatively? I have no idea what to do anymore.

First of all, you’re completely right. Do not change for someone else. You are definitely not blowing it out of proportion … this is really important.

Second, there’s no fixing him, it just cannot be done. Now that you’ve told him, he knows you don’t like it. He has a chance to listen to you or not. (Seems like he has chosen “not”) The “fix” is in you. Accept him the way that he is or leave him. It’s totally under your control.

you could make him something he likes ( try to butter him up a little) and say that you dont dress like that because its just not you. i’m the same i love my t shirts and jeans and have never owned a thong or yoga pants. they just dont seem confortable and thats just kinda not me to flaunt, in a way, my ass. tell him your reasons for not wearing these clothes. if that doesnt work…. idk. love is hard. you could buy a thong and wear it just occationally when you guys are together like on the weekends. just for him. to show him that you do want him to be happy to and you like doing things for him. but tell him that its just for him and that you decide when and where you are going to wear it.